My wife and I went to the counsellor tonight.  It was night and day from our last visit.  Last time, I was looking on the internet for what to do if you're getting divorced.  Tonight, we were very close, embracing each other.

When I explained when it was that I realized the situation wasn't all my wife's fault, I hadn't been noticing her the way I used to, and how that made me feel, I made our therapist cry.

We're going again, but not for a few weeks.

I think we're going to make it.  I going to make a heroic effort to maintain the intensity I feel right now.  I just texted a naughty picture to my wife when she's out with the girls.  They're at a jewelry party.  I'm going over there after the party is over.