Earlier, Twidget was saying how Neko is a nice person.  I took exception to that by giving examples of how he takes pleasure in needling me about family tragedy.  Neko kind of crossed the line here.  I'm not upset, he didn't even get it right, but he made an effort to really cause me distress and hurt me in a very real and tangible way.

When the events of my divorce were unfolding, I posted a lot of the particulars here in an attempt to work them out in my head and to understand the situation.  For the most part, it worked.  I'm in a good place personally.  Events have pretty much gone my way legally, socially, and within my family.  The X has been trying to antagonize me in a variety of ways, but all she's doing is cutting her own throat legally.  At this point, she's a deeply unhappy person who uses finances and limiting my access to resources to care for her children in an effort to cause me hardship and strife.  All she does is demonstrate how far she's fallen.  She's proven herself a liar, a thief, and has recently acted in ways I consider actively abusive to her children.

I feel sorry for her.  She can tell I'm not unhappy, not tormented, and still have the respect of her children.  She is consumed with hate for me now.  By the vindictiveness of her actions, you'd think it was me who left her.

Neko, the nice person, went back through my blogs about my divorce, gathered particulars that I posted, and fabricated a story about something he'd done to sabotage me obtaining custody of my kids and a fair settlement in the divorce.

Yesterday, he sent a PM to me:  "did your divorce end yet?"

I replied:  "No"

Early this morning, he sent:  "Oh, cool."

Today, just now, I read this message from Neko: 

"It's cool. You remember when you posted the name of your wife's lawyer? It turned out Lynn is a guy's name. Crocker Lynn Hughes. Cool guy. I befriended him on facebook a long time ago. There's not many people with that name in Nevada. Especially not lawyers. He's a subscriber for your blogs ever since. lol

it's cool how you make a report on everything you do in your blogs. It was very helpful to your awesome wife. And to her unisex-named lawyer.

So, I guess you owned yourself. And if you're wondering what's this about, it's because you called me a whore ages ago without a reason. I hate when people do that. I wouldn't even care for you otherwise. Next time you call someone names for fun, you better make sure you know who you're dealing with."

I didn't post her lawyer's actual name.  Lynn Hughes is one of the lawyers that I went to for a free consultation when I was trying to choose a lawyer.  His first name isn't Crocker either.  That's not the point though.  Neko went through to the trouble to make up a story about contacting a lawyer in Vegas to undermine my effort to do right by my children.

He implied he's in collusion with my "awesome" wife who abandoned her children and threw their life into turmoil to indulge herself.  Yes sir, Neko, she's almost as "awesome" as you are.

Now imagine that, even for a second, I believed what Neko said.  It's obvious that's what Neko wanted.  Was he trying to give me more stress?  Trying to inspire another liver failure?  Trying to make me panic?  Whatever his motivation, it was a well planned personal attack to cause me pain and anxiety during a period of already extreme difficulty and personal hardship.

I knew Neko was a despicable person.  I never knew he'd stoop this low.  This was an act of a sick person. 

I made a reply before I blogged:

"Never called you whore.  It's not a word I commonly use.  You got her lawyer's name wrong too.  Besides, there's nothing in my blogs that I haven't said to her face or would be afraid of in court.  The counter-claim for divorce I filed was actually more extreme and made more radical statements than anything I posted here.

You are full of shit on so many levels.  But in continuing to mock my family tragedy and make lame efforts at antagonizing me, you have proven yourself to be toe jam of an exceptional filth.

Nice try, troll."