If you’re worried that your friends are paying more attention to their fajitas than to you at your own birthday dinner, those people probably aren’t your friends.

You might be wondering what the hell that statement has to do with anything. In short, this woman took to TikTok to say that she can’t stand it when people order fajitas at a birthday dinner. Why? Because a sizzling plate of fajitas brings the attention onto the fajita-eater and not to the person whose birthday it is.

While most people could probably brush this off, this woman really can’t. Honestly, if you’re going to be like this, I don’t think you’re cut out for eating in public. Just stick to DoorDash and call it a day.